An ADU, in-law suite, or home addition may be the answer. But assisted living might be, too. We help you compare all of it honestly — before you commit to anything.
When an aging parent can no longer safely live alone — or when the cost of assisted living starts to feel unsustainable — families across Rhode Island face the same painful decision under real time pressure. They usually get advice from two separate sources: a contractor who recommends building, and an assisted living coordinator who recommends moving. Neither is designed to give them the full picture.
Bluestone Homes is different. We'll sit down with you and walk through every realistic option for your parent, your property, and your budget — ADU, in-law suite, home addition, assisted living comparison, or a combination — with honest cost ranges and timelines for each. The decision is yours. Our job is to make sure you have what you need to make it confidently.
A fully self-contained unit — separate entrance, kitchen, bathroom — built on your existing property. Costs in Rhode Island typically range from $80,000 to $250,000 depending on size, site conditions, and finish level. ADUs work well for families who want genuine independence for both parties. They can also be rented as income-generating units later.
An addition to your existing home that creates a private bedroom and bathroom suite, often with a separate entrance. Generally less expensive than a standalone ADU but offers less separation. Works well for families where shared common space is acceptable and preferred.
We are not an assisted living company, but we'll help you run the math. In many cases, building an ADU is less expensive over a 5-year period than ongoing assisted living costs — and it adds value to your property rather than being a recurring expense. We'll help you compare both honestly.
In some situations, the right answer is for the parent to sell their existing home and use the proceeds to build on the adult child's property — or for families to purchase a larger home together. We can advise on all of these.
